• Home
  • Short Bio
    • Fr. Dave’s Resume
  • Contact
  • More Articles
    • WEEKLY ARCHIVES
  • Holy Land Pilgrimage
  • University Series
  • Newsletter

Fr. Dave Heney

Connecting Faith with Real Life

Holy Land Tour Father Dave Heney

Gospel Reflections for December 12 2021: 3rd Sunday Advent

December 10, 2021 By Father Dave 16 Comments

Gospel Reflections for December 12 2021

Gospel for December 12 2021 – Luke 3:10-18

Gospel Reflections for December 12 2021

A new Christmas gift idea!

Is your Christmas shopping done? If not, the Gospel suggests a wonderful and unexpected gift. Jesus speaks to three different groups of people about what they can give others. 

To the crowd: If you have a lot of nice things, help those who don’t.

To Tax Collectors: Be fair, and don’t overcharge poor people.

To Roman Soldiers: Don’t use your power to intimidate people.

Jesus says they must each give what is just and due to the people they meet.

Give to the poor, real and practical help.

Give to taxpayers, fairness in assessing taxes.

Give to people under Roman oppression, restore peace and protection

This is the very definition of justice …that people receive what is their due. If you steal five dollars from someone, justice demands you give those five dollars back. If you steal respect, fairness, or dignity, you must restore them as well. That is all well and good.

But what if these are all new behaviors? What if it is the first time that people ever help the poor, or tax collectors are fair, or Roman soldiers ensure peace? 

Now Our Lord is talking about giving the gift …“of a changed life.”  You are offering …a new you! What a surprise gift that might be to your family and friends!

Now you have moved from justice to love, an even more profound and meaningful gift! This could include these behaviors…

While before I never noticed your needs, now I will pay more attention and offer real help.

While before I used to take advantage of your weakness, now I will strengthen you.

While before I used to start arguments, now I will bring reconciliation and peace.

While a gift under the tree at Christmas can bring joy for the moment, the gift of a changed and better life for your loved ones can last for a much longer time. I am sure your loved ones will appreciate it more as well.

No need to go shopping for this gift of a new life. Just model your life on Our Lord. Every Sunday Mass can be your weekly lesson on how to do just that.   

The birth of Jesus at Christmas adds love to our relationships, where we actively try to help make the people around us even happier and even more fulfilled. 

That is a welcome gift!

God Bless!

Fr. Dave

Fr. Dave Heney - DaveHeney.com

Filed Under: Gospel Reflections

About Father Dave

Fr. Dave Heney was ordained a parish priest for the Archdiocese of Los Angeles in 1978. In 1991 he received a Masters degree in Marriage, Family, and Child Counseling from the University of Southern California. He has authored three books and founded The University Series, a Lenten adult education program. Currently he is Pastor of St. Bruno Catholic Church in Whittier, California. Learn more about Fr. Dave >>

Comments

  1. Andy says

    December 11, 2021 at 8:33 am

    I am now working on this and it feels so rewarding.

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:23 pm

      I am very glad to hear that!

      Reply
  2. Larry Schauf says

    December 11, 2021 at 8:37 am

    “Add more love to our relationships” as our Christmas gift. Nothing simpler or more important for our family and friends….and US!

    Thanks Fr. Dave

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:24 pm

      You are welcome!

      Reply
  3. Monica Radel says

    December 11, 2021 at 8:54 am

    Thank you Fr. Dave for another thoughtful reflection. I’ve been praying for the love of God to guide me lately more than ever and it has definitely produced good fruit. I’d like to share one example; but first, I’ll start with a quote from your article.

    “Now Our Lord is talking about giving the gift …’of a changed life.’ You are offering …a new you! What a surprise gift that might be to your family and friends!

    “Now you have moved from justice to love, an even more profound and meaningful gift!”

    After I read this, I thought: True and perfect love comes from God and is often overlooked. Yet every day we’re given the opportunity with the help of the Holy Spirit and the Grace of God to put it into practice and experience a “changed life”.

    Here’s an example:

    Last week, I was in a rush to get to my doctor’s office. The parking structure was very crowded and there was a long line of cars trying to find a parking space. I prayed, “Lord, please help me find a parking space so I can get to the office quickly.” As I turned to the right, approaching the next level, I saw a car pulling out of a space reserved for the handicapped. I don’t have a handicap placard and I wasn’t able to park there; but the thought occurred to me, “What is the most loving thing to do?” Although I was in a hurry, I knew what I had to do; so I stopped and let the car pull out of the space. To my surprise, during the time it took for them to pull their car out of that space, another person in a car a few spaces down was also able to pull out into the crowded parking lot. Since I was the first in line, I was able to pull into that space. Two drivers benefited and my prayer was answered through an act of love.

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:26 pm

      What a great story for this time of year! Thank you for sharing it. Your thoughtfulness about that parking space turned around as a blessing for you.

      Reply
  4. Franca Dornan says

    December 11, 2021 at 9:21 am

    Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it a new me in the beautiful love of our Jesus!!! A most precious beautiful Christmas to you our father Dave!! we soooooooooooooooooooo love you and your love for our Jesus!! You are our Christmas gift of love to us and to everyone!!!
    Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, Franca and Dick

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:26 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply
  5. Sharon Foster says

    December 11, 2021 at 12:36 pm

    Fr Dave,
    Thank you for reminding us what a powerful & loving gift to our family & friends it would be if we let go of our destructive behaviors. & show love, kindness, consideration, & joy instead.

    Blessings,
    Sherrie

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:26 pm

      Letting go of bad behaviors and adding good ones. That is what Advent is all about.

      Reply
  6. Tom Joyce says

    December 11, 2021 at 3:33 pm

    Just finished watching your Feature on “COVID AND THE MASS”. One of the best explanations of what the Mass represents and is all about. Friends and Family Members are given a copy of that piece any time they ask for sn explanation of why I Attend Mass. Thanks for a wonderful explanation of why I find Mass so worthwhile. May we all grow in the light of Christ during this Advent Season.

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:29 pm

      So glad that you found and liked that video. I think it is one of the most important things I have ever done. We have a printed copy of the text on large cards placed in all the pews as well so that people can read it before Mass begins, or even take it home with them if they want. Thanks for spreading the word about it too.

      Reply
  7. Jane says

    December 11, 2021 at 3:58 pm

    Great reflection!!
    I am so happy to be a follower of Jesus.
    The way that our music choir concert next week can be streamed to those who need to stay home is such a blessing.
    I love the idea of “a changed & better life “ & more love in all of our relationship as our gift to family this year!!
    Merry Christmas &
    God Bless everyone!!
    Jane

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      December 11, 2021 at 7:30 pm

      I hope your Christmas Concert will be a blessing to everyone!

      Reply
  8. Kathleen says

    December 28, 2021 at 11:10 am

    I’m not aware of the video about “ Covid and the Mass ”. I’m interested in knowing more. I love attending mass but that’s not the best explanation when my grandchildren beg the question.
    Happy New Year Father Dave.
    Kathleen

    Reply
    • Father Dave says

      January 1, 2022 at 11:45 am

      The 20 minute video I made on “Covid and the Mass” is available at my website at daveheney.com, or at my parish website at stbrunochurch.org. Hope you like it.

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Physics and Faith: From Light to Life
Luke 10 Leadership How to Succeed at Parish Ministry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1a82sjLXM-g

Click video to view or watch on YouTube

Popular Articles…

  • Why Does God Allow Evil?
  • 2023 Blessings In Our Catholic Faith
  • Refections on Mass Shootings
  • Transgender Issues: The power of feeling and thinking
  • Roe v. Wade and Catholic Morality
  • Critical Race Theory
  • Latest Holy Land Security Update
  • Sticks and Stones: Free Speech and Violent Protests
  • Padre Serra and Cancel Culture
  • Black Lives Matter
  • Racism in Our World
  • What Happens at Mass?
  • Emergency Planning
  • Pro-Life & Pro-Choice Politics
  • Child Abuse Crisis and the Church
  • No safer place…
  • Can Your Prayer Change God’s Mind?
  • What If I Get Sick?
  • Old Testament Violence
  • Non-Religious View of Marriage & Same Sex Couples
  • Same Sex Couples and Marriage
  • Why Do Radical Islamic People Hate America
  • Forgiveness …is not forgetting

ABOUT FATHER DAVE
CONTACT

WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
WEEKLY ACRHIVES

THE UNIVERSITY SERIES
ANNUAL HOLY LAND PILGRIMAGE

Copyright © 2025 Dave Heney All Rights Reserved.